Settling into a new city: Creating community on your own terms


Getting through a new transition is a lot easier when you’ve got a few simple habits to lean on. The more those small actions repeat, the more your days find a natural rhythm. And that rhythm makes new places feel less overwhelming and a lot more manageable.


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SNS - Starting over in a new place often brings fresh energy and steady change. Many people feel unsure at first, yet curiosity quickly builds new momentum. Daily routines shift, new streets appear, and small discoveries guide each step. Local habits, new faces, and steady exploration create steady progress. Each moment offers a chance to grow, learn, and adjust without pressure. Overall, the process of settling into a new city also encourages personal direction, since each choice shapes the path forward. This early stage feels challenging, yet steady effort creates a strong sense of purpose.

Understanding Local Culture and Social Norms

New surroundings often feel intense at first, yet steady observation brings clarity. Local habits reveal how people interact and move through daily life. Streets, events, and shared spaces show natural rhythms.

In the middle of this shift, many individuals find motivation and overcome depression by learning how new environments shape mood and energy. Each day offers small cues that build confidence. Simple chats, brief greetings, and regular outings create steady progress. Curiosity leads to smoother adjustments. Local traditions also spark insight into personal comfort and direction. This early awareness supports stronger choices and a sense of ease.

Take your time to explore the new environment after the move.

Building Steady Routines That Support Belonging

Daily habits shape comfort during early transitions. Simple rituals help anchor each day and reduce stress. Regular stops at familiar spots create predictability. Short chats or shared smiles offer a gentle connection.

Routines also guide attention toward supportive spaces. Consistent schedules boost confidence and encourage fresh interests. Each repeated action builds a sense of rhythm. This rhythm strengthens focus and helps new environments feel easier to handle. Small choices each day support long-term comfort and personal growth.

Exploring Local Culture Through Everyday Routines

Daily routines reveal how a community lives, interacts, and welcomes newcomers. As you go through simple habits—like grabbing a morning coffee, stopping by a local market, or taking a short walk—you begin getting familiar with your new neighborhood in a way that feels natural. These small moments show you what the pace is like, who tends to be outside at different hours, and which streets feel lively or relaxed.


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As you keep meeting the neighbors, enjoy spontaneous interactions, whether you’re greeting a neighbor, chatting with a shop owner, or joining activities organized by the community.

You’ll notice that exploring your new area often leads to spontaneous interactions, whether you’re greeting a neighbor, chatting with a shop owner, or joining activities organized by the community. These experiences help you map out nearby parks, quiet shortcuts, and social spots that match your comfort level.

As you keep meeting the neighbors and paying attention to the daily rhythm of each block, your confidence grows. Soon, the routes you walk most often start to feel familiar, and each day adds another layer of connection to the place you now call home.

Finding Places That Support New Connections

Local spots shape new experiences and spark steady interaction. Fitness studios, reading rooms, or hobby clubs offer natural openings for conversation. In the middle of this process, settling into a new city feels smoother when familiar faces appear in your routine.

Digital tools also help you move with purpose. Meetup groups, event listings, or neighborhood chats point you toward activities that match your interests. Each visit adds clarity and builds steady momentum. You learn which spaces feel supportive and which events fit your style. This mix of in-person stops and online choices creates a reliable path toward new relationships and a stronger sense of belonging.

Even though you’re new in town, there are plenty of ways to meet new people.

Building Steady Habits and Engaging with Ease

Regular routines create stronger ties and bring familiar moments into each week. Returning to the same café, class, or park builds comfort and keeps interactions natural. Each visit also helps others recognize your presence and sparks easy introductions. Simple openings like commenting on a shared activity encourage smoother dialogue.


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As you keep meeting the neighbors, enjoy spontaneous interactions, whether you’re greeting a neighbor, chatting with a shop owner, or joining activities organized by the community.

Short remarks about the space or event lighten the mood and reduce pressure. Clear body language supports friendly exchanges and keeps the flow relaxed. Consistent effort also strengthens confidence and guides you toward more meaningful links. These small steps offer a steady rhythm that supports new bonds and helps each day feel more grounded.

Strengthening Bonds and Moving Through Challenges when Settling Into A New City

Fresh links grow when each step feels intentional and steady. Follow-ups, shared plans, and small invitations keep momentum strong. Midway through these efforts, casual chats about wine pairing ideas can spark fun moments and add warmth. Service activities or local projects also open doors and deepen trust. New plans often start small and expand with time. Awareness of common hurdles helps you stay grounded and focused.
  • Reach out after a good conversation and suggest a simple outing.
  • Join local efforts that support others and offer a clear purpose.
  • Host relaxed gatherings like snack nights or short walks.
  • Prepare for slow periods and adjust your pace with patience.
  • Stay aware of your needs and set limits when energy drops.
Each action guides you toward steadier progress and clearer direction. Consistent engagement builds familiarity and creates space for natural growth.

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Caring for Yourself During the Transition

Personal well-being supports steady progress and helps each day feel balanced. Small rituals like stretching, journaling, or short walks bring calm and clarity. Midway through this shift, a choice to freshen up your home can boost comfort and lighten stress. A tidy space strengthens focus and gives the day a smoother start.

Good rest also fuels patience and steadiness. Short breaks help reset your mood and protect your energy. Clear limits keep your schedule healthy and prevent overwhelm. Nutritious meals and simple movement add strength and steady grounding. Each mindful action builds resilience and gives the whole experience a calmer pace.

Give yourself enough time to get used to the new environment and new friends.

Shaping a Life That Feels Like Home

Settling into a new city can spark questions about comfort, pace, and direction. Each day gives room for small wins that support confidence. Simple habits, regular outings, and honest reflection guide steady growth. New interests often appear as people explore different spaces and activities. Personal goals shift as comfort rises, and fresh connections strengthen daily life. The process of settling also helps people understand what they value most. This stage encourages steady action, clear choices, and a mindset that supports long-term satisfaction.


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Guest Commentary |
Everyday actions make a difference, treat people around you right



Everyday actions make a difference. Say thank you a lot and use kind words often.


by Glenn Mollette, Guest Commentator



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America’s continued national success is dependent on all of us-the American people. Our American people are what makes America a great nation. We have a beautiful land. We have plenty of natural resources and we have a great heritage but it’s our everyday actions that make America great.

Everyday actions make a difference. For example, don’t randomly beep your car horn at people. You never know what someone is dealing with in front of you. Possibly, they are not in as big a hurry as you. Maybe they are trying to obey the speed limit. Maybe they are elderly and they have slowed down a bit in life. Riding their bumper and beeping your horn never makes the situation better. You will not advance yourself any faster plus you will only frustrate the driver in front of you and yourself. Lay back, relax and wait for an opportunity to safely pass the car.

Don’t fight with people at the restaurant buffet. Buffets typically have more than enough. I seldom have seen a skinny person filling his or her plate at the buffet. There is no need to rush in front of people to get a spoonful of mashed potatoes. Bide your time, be patient in line and your opportunity to select your chicken or ribs will come. I found myself in a buffet line on a cruise ship not long ago. I began to think that David surely wrote Psalm 23 while navigating a cruise ship’s dessert section.


Treat people the way you like be treated.

Open the door for people but stand and wait for someone to open one for you. Be the one who opens the door and encourage the person close by to go ahead of you. Pushing ahead of someone often prompts them to push forward and there is nothing gained by everyone trying to push forward ahead of the other, except ill will.

Say thank you a lot and use kind words often. We all have the ability to complain and sometimes we have to complain or nothing gets done. When there is a big pot hole in your road then kindly ask the highway department to fix it. Try kindness, speaking respectfully and writing kind letters. Be very nice. You can always get ticked off and angry if there is no other alternative. However, usually there is higher road that we can take and in the end we will feel better if a positive result was met without having to act crazy.

Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. This is a good Bible rule that works well in all aspects of life. Treat people the way you like be treated. If we, the American people, will do so, our country will run more smoothly, peacefully and happily.



About the author ~

Glen Mollett is the author of 13 books including Uncommom Sense, the Spiritual Chocolate series, Grandpa's Store, Minister's Guidebook insights from a fellow minister. His column is published weekly in over 600 publications in all 50 states.



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Urbana's Mariachi Tigres host garage sale fundraiser for new uniforms on Saturday



The Mariachi Tigres will host a garage sale fundraiser Saturday at Urbana Middle School, complete with music and food trucks, to raise money for new Mariachi uniforms.


URBANA - Outside Urbana Middle School this Saturday, music, community spirit and a whole lot of treasure hunting will come together for a good cause. The students of Mariachi Tigres, the joint Mariachi group of Urbana High School and Urbana Middle School, are hosting a garage sale to raise money for new uniforms — the traditional Trajes de Charro that complete the classic Mariachi look.

Founded in 2023, Mariachi Tigres quickly became a beloved part of the Urbana school music family. In just over a year, the group has performed at local events and celebrations, sharing their joy and culture through music that gets toes tapping and hearts lifting.

The garage sale kicks off at 8 a.m. Saturday, Sept. 20, outside Urbana Middle School. Early birds with donations in hand can drop items off between 6:30 and 7:30 a.m., where volunteers will be ready to sort and price everything. And while bargain hunters browse, they can also indulge in something sweet — OMS Cravings, one of Urbana’s newest food trucks, will be on site serving churros, flan and tres leches cake, with proceeds also benefiting the Mariachi fund.

Organizers say the group still needs more items for the sale and encourage community members to donate gently used goods. For questions or to arrange an early donation, email lmaldonado@usd116.org or tgingold@usd116.org.

So, whether you’re looking for a good deal, a sweet treat or just a way to support local students, Saturday morning outside UMS might be the perfect stop. Every purchase helps bring the Tigres one step closer to proudly wearing their new uniforms on stage.


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Guest Commentary |
Will you turn to AI for companionship?





by Glenn Mollette, Guest Commentator




Artificial Intelligence, AI, is a wonderful tool for research and information. However, I don’t want my deepest relationship to be with a chatbot, chatgpt, robot or anything related to AI.

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There is a mega billion-dollar AI movement that is connecting people with their own personal AI bot who will be their dearest and best friend. Someone who cares, who is attentive and fulfills all their conversational needs regardless of the topic. I hope our planet doesn’t become so desperate for companionship that everyone starts spending hours every day talking to “something” that doesn’t really exist but is able to hold a conversation about any topic for hours on end without stopping.

So much of our world already lives in isolation. Millions, perhaps billions of people live in seclusion with their faces continually focused on their phones or tablets. We don’t call people on the telephone or visit them in person like we used to do. Now people can socialize even less as they may find their AI bot, configured to any personality or gender they desire, more interesting than talking to real people.

I am grateful that I have Jesus, my beautiful wife, family and people associated with my work to talk with. I would surely be sad if I felt that I had to turn to something mechanical for conversation.

Japan is already in a sad situation. Over 3000 men have married virtual girlfriends since 2017. One man, reportedly married his robot girlfriend, Gatebox’s Hologram Girl, in 2018. Japan does not recognize these as legal but symbolic marriages. Between now and 2065 Japan’s population is supposed to drop from 128 million to 88 million people.

There are several reasonsfor this including an aging population, low birth rate and limited immigration. A love life that is centered on a virtual character will do nothing to help their dwindling population.

In America our choices are growing. Realbotix robots are supposedly fully interactive and mobile. Lovot is a soft warm robot for emotional connection. Aibo is Sony’s AI-powered robot dog that learns and adapts to owners. Elliq is a robot that keeps elderly users active and engaged. Vector is a small robot that responds to voice commands. Kiki is an AI powered pet robot that recognizes faces. Ami is a caregiving robot that assists with daily activities. Amazon has Astro which is a home monitoring and smart assistant robot. The list goes on. Maybe, you are more interested now in one of these or something different that is certain to come.

The AI market is expected to reach $1.81 trillion by 2030, growing at a rate of 35.9 percent.

Artificial Intelligence is here and we can make it a great tool or allow it to become a negative influence in our lives. It’s kind of like television, pizza and candy bars. A little bit is good but we can overdo it as we can with most anything.



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In Review |
Ponman is more than just a movie



What truly makes this film stand out is its core message. Simple in its narrative yet profoundly impactful in its message.

by Rashmi Rekha Das
     

Recently, I watched a Malayalam movie on JioCinema (Hotstar), and it truly left a lasting impression on me. As a die-hard fan of Malayalam cinema, I rarely miss films that resonate with my taste—and last Friday’s watch, Ponman, was a gem. Simple in its narrative yet profoundly impactful in its message.

Directed by debutant Jotish Shankar and starring the ever-talented Basil Joseph, Ponman is set in a quiet coastal town in Kollam. The story begins with Bruno (Anand Manmadhan) and his mother, who are eager to arrange a marriage for his sister, Steffi (Lijomol Jose). But in Kerala’s dowry-driven society, their hopes clash with harsh realities. Steffi’s marriage is fixed with Mariyano, a prawn farmer from the remote island of Thalavettichira, whose family demands 25 sovereigns of gold as dowry.


The story takes an emotional turn when Ajesh, prepared to leave empty-handed, finds Steffi waiting alone at the church.

Due to Bruno’s troubled past, the family has no savings and no social support. The church denies them financial help, and Bruno is expelled from his political party. Enter PP Ajesh (Basil Joseph), a man with a unique business: he lends gold to brides' families in exchange for repayment after the wedding, using the cash gifts they receive. But when Steffi’s family fails to return either the gold or its value, Ajesh is left in a bind.

Determined to recover what he’s owed, Ajesh travels to Thalavettichira, posing as Steffi’s cousin. He soon realizes the real challenge: Mariyano’s family tightly guards the gold, intending to use it to settle their own dowry debts and save for their younger daughter’s future wedding. As tensions escalate, Mariyano uncovers Ajesh’s true identity, leading to a fierce confrontation. Steffi is forced to reveal everything.

The story takes an emotional turn when Ajesh, prepared to leave empty-handed, finds Steffi waiting alone at the church. She reveals she can’t return to Mariyano’s abusive household. In a quiet yet powerful moment, Ajesh offers her an escape. As they sail away together, he tells her, “You don’t need gold. You are valuable even without it.”

What follows is a poignant journey—Ajesh navigating survival, integrity, and deeply ingrained societal pressures. The film beautifully portrays his struggles, his humanity, and the quiet yet moving bond that develops between him and Steffi.

With an IMDb rating of 7.4/10 and a glowing 4.5/5 from The Times of India, Ponman is receiving well-deserved praise. Basil Joseph, Sajin Gopu, and Lijomol Jose deliver remarkable performances, each bringing authenticity and emotional depth to their roles. For his debut, Jotish Shankar has truly delivered—his storytelling is grounded, sensitive, and visually compelling.

But what truly sets Ponman apart is its core message. The film bravely sheds light on the harsh reality of dowry—particularly the tradition of gifting gold—and how it continues to burden lower-middle-class families. It’s a topic we seldom address, yet Ponman tackles it with sincerity and grace.

This is more than just a movie; it’s a mirror to society. A must-watch for anyone who appreciates meaningful cinema that dares to speak the truth.



Is modern dating really broken? A study says not really


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(SNS)- Dating has never been easy.

It is hard because it involves navigating a complex mix of emotions, expectations, and external pressures. From high standards and fear of rejection to miscommunication and cultural influences, the challenges vary from person to person and relationship to relations.

Add into the mix social isolation created by technology, pandemic lockdowns and potential partners’ unrealistic expectations from movies and TV shows that show failling in love as effortless and magical, setting unrealistic expectations for real-life relationships. Yeah, finding the love your life is hard.

Pop culture critiques tend to regard today's dating ritual as "broken".

Two studies performed a decade apart found that college students' ideas about romantic relationships have largely remained unchanged over time, according to study leader Brian Ogolsky, a professor of human development and family studies at the University of Illinois Urbana-Champaign.

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"College students in our study did not share this perception of dating as a broken system, despite many massive cultural shifts during this decade," Ogolsky said, dispelling the popular myth that today's singles are unability to find a romantic partner because dating culture is 'broken'. "Their perspectives on relationships today aren’t that different from what they were 10 years ago — or even 10 years before that. Instead, young adults are taking more diverse and multifaceted pathways through romantic partnering and considering a broader range of outcomes."

The study asked 250 college students between the ages 18-29 to "describe their thoughts and experiences about the typical initiation and progression of romantic relationships." The initial research started in 2012 and it was ran again in 2021.

Based upon participants’ responses, the researchers identified four stages in relationship development: flirtationship, testing relationship potential, being in a relationship, and commitment.


Commitment or Bust, is the point where a couple agrees to a long-term commitment

Flirtationship is the initial stage where attraction begins, often through flirting and shared interests, either online or in person.

The next step is Testing Relationship Potential, where the couple spends more time together, engages in deep conversations, and determines if they want to pursue a serious relationship, with friendship playing a key role.

When a couple reaches the third stage, their romantic needs have been met and their status as a couple is made official. The "In a Relationship" level usually denotes that mutual boundaries have been defined, such as a commitment to exclusivity and supporting each other emotionally, financially, and in their individual careers. At this point, couples are introducing their partner into their social circles and family.

“Young adults clearly distinguish dating from being in a relationship,” Ogolsky told the Illinois News Bureau. “In our study, we used the term ‘relationship development’ to describe the activities we were investigating, but it became clear that participants did not view early behaviors as part of being in a relationship per se. Instead, they viewed flirting and even dating as part of a broader pattern of interpersonal interaction that may or may not eventually lead to the formation of a relationship.”

Depending on external pressure from family, friends, or their cultural background, the final stage, Commitment or Bust, is the point where a couple agrees to a long-term commitment, either living together or getting married. Or, in the worst case for one or both partners, they may choose to move on in search of their happily ever after with someone else.

Ogolsky speculated that during the ten year period, the rapid growth in social media and dating apps would greatly affect how today's students approached dating.

"When we ask people about relationship prototypes, they’re not talking about technology," he explained. "They’re thinking about relationships in broad strokes. And we found it interesting that the centerpiece of relationships was not dating apps, artificial intelligence or robots or all the other things we may have predicted 25 or 40 years ago."


Traditional relationship milestones like engagement and marriage are no longer seen as necessary next steps these days.

Today, more young adults value the freedom and flexibility of being single, enjoying the ability to make decisions without considering a spouse or partner. Many prioritize bucket lists - travel, personal development, and reaching career goals - before settling into a lifelong commitment.

Observing failed marriages among friends or family members, especially a messy one or two, is powerful deterant. According to the Centers for Disease Prevention and Control (CDC), the current divorce rate nationwide is around 42%. The average first marriage lasts about eight years.

Financial instability due to changing career changes, debt, inflation, and student loans payback often delay couples entering into marriage. The cost of a modest wedding for two hundred guests is eye-opening.

Traditional relationship milestones like engagement and marriage are no longer seen as necessary next steps these days. Couples are choosing alternative paths such as cohabitation or long-term partnerships without marriage. While the steps to long-term commitmment may have not deviated that much in the past decade, navigating to that point certainly has.


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New Asian supermarket, H Mart in Urbana set to open tomorrow


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New H Mart at 220 N. Broadway in Urbana set to open on Thursday at 10 a.m.

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URBANA - H Mart, America's largest Asian supermarket chain, will open its first downstate Illinois location Wednesday in downtown Urbana, marking a significant expansion beyond its Chicago-area presence.

The 32,000-square-foot store at 220 N. Broadway Ave. will celebrate its grand opening with traditional festivities beginning at 9:50 a.m., including a ribbon-cutting ceremony, Korean dance performance and Lion Dance.

The store represents H Mart's sixth location in Illinois and brings authentic Asian grocery options to the diverse Champaign-Urbana community. The new location occupies a renovated former Save-A-Lot building, demonstrating the company's commitment to adaptive reuse.

"H Mart is excited to bring an authentic taste of Asia to your neighborhood," said H Mart President Brian Kwon in a statement. "Our market is all about celebrating the richness and variety of Asian cuisine, making it easier than ever to find the flavors you love, right here at home."

The store features the "Market Eatery" food court, offering various Asian cuisines in a sit-down dining environment. Shoppers will find extensive selections of packaged good, Asian produce, seafood, meats and Asian specialty items.

Opening day shoppers can participate in several promotions, including free gifts for purchases over $50 and complimentary reusable shopping bags with $30 purchases. New members joining the H Mart Smart Rewards Card program will receive a free thermos mug cup and 2025 calendar.

Urbana Mayor Diane Wolfe Marlin welcomed the investment, noting the store's potential impact on downtown vitality and job creation.

"Our diverse community is excited to shop the full line of Asian and American groceries, meats, seafood, produce, housewares and ready-made meals," Marlin said.

The store will operate daily from 8 a.m. to 10 p.m., including holidays. Opening day promotions include free gifts for purchases over $50 and reusable shopping bags for purchases exceeding $30, while supplies last.

Founded in 1982 in Queens, New York, H-Mart as grown to more than 100 stores across 18 states. The Urbana location marks the chain's sixth Illinois store and its first venture outside the Chicago metropolitan area.



Commentary |
Am Yisrael Chai – It’s just a slogan, it is a way of life


by Leor Sinai, Rabbi


Am Yisrael Chai – It’s just a slogan, it is a way of life

I remember growing up as a kid in Brooklyn singing the Am Yisrael Chai chant, we’d sing it with great excitement and with great pride. And then I remember myself as a young adult, growing into my career as a professional Jew working for various nonprofits, always ending my talks, and my social media posts, with the chant: Am Yisrael? (audience) Chai. I remember how friends and colleagues thought it was cute, reminiscent of a time when they too may have sung the song as kids, they’d chuckle. That’s what I was known for, I was the guy who people knew would scream out AM YISRAEL CHAI wherever and whenever possible. Am Yisrael Chai is not a slogan, it is a way of life.

The earliest use of the slogan appeared as early as 1895 in a Zionist songbook

Fast-forward to post October 7, 2023, Am Yisrael Chai has once again re-emerged as the rallying cry for the global people of Israel. My wife jokes that I should’ve copywritten the slogan back then, not that I think that would’ve been possible, but boy I would’ve been a millionaire by now! The reality is that we stand at an intersection of historic proportions, a point of reference requiring us to rise to the challenges confronting our people, once again elevating the rallying cry: Am Yisrael Chai!

I know, I see it all over social media, and I hear it all the time, you do too, and I love it.

Am Yisrael Chai is not a slogan, it is a way of life.

The earliest use of the slogan appeared as early as 1895 in a Zionist songbook, and again at the Second World Jewish Conference in 1933, summoned to fight Hitler's new Nazi regime through economic boycott. Rabbi Stephen Samuel Wise ended the final address by declaring to the crowd: "We are prepared to defend ourselves against the will of Hitler Germany to destroy. We must defend ourselves because we are a people which lives and wishes to live. My last word that I wish to speak to you is this – our people lives — Am Yisrael Chai!"

And again, on April 20, 1945, five days after the Bergen-Belsen concentration camp was liberated, British Army chaplain Rabbi Leslie Hardman led a Friday evening Shabbat service for a few hundred survivors at the camp. Knowing the service was being recorded by Patrick Gordon Walker of the BBC radio service, a Jewish army chaplain proclaimed "Am Yisrael Chai!, the children of Israel still liveth" after the group sang the anthem Hatikvah at the conclusion of the service.

The slogan reemerged in 1965, when Rabbi Shlomo Carlebach was asked to compose a song ahead of a planned Student Struggle for Soviet Jewry (SSSJ) rally in front of the Soviet Mission to the United Nations in New York on April 4, 1965. While in Soviet-dominated Czechoslovakia, Carlebach wrote and first performed "Am Yisrael Chai" before a group of youth in Prague.

At each of these historic instances the slogan Am Yisrael Chai served as a living reference and driving force inspiring Am Yisrael at its most challenging times – The People of Israel LIVE!

Am Yisrael Chai is not a slogan, it is a way of life.

Fast-forward to today, we know that Am Yisrael Chai isn’t merely a slogan, rather Am Yisrael Chai is a way of life with a purpose that is projected forward from generations before our time to future generations yet to be born, driving our active participation in reclaiming, retelling, and realizing our story. Just as in the examples shared above, so too today, the slogan serves our current global Jewish anchor of hope and forward moving existence.

Am Yisrael Chai is not a slogan, it is a way of life.

Our ancestors who outlived exile and perpetuated Jewish life for 2000 years in exile

The question is how do we perpetuate and live this value? By doing something about it. By being an active participant and not a bystander. By getting involved in every which way possible, by educating yourself, educating your children, and sending your kids to Jewish youth group and sleepaway camps, and by educating your community. It means getting involved in your local synagogue/temple, in a local communal organization, and getting involved with a cause that directly impacts Jewish Peoplehood and Israel, and it means role modeling for your children and others.

Am Yisrael Chai is not a slogan, it is a way of life.

What kind of ancestors will we be to our future generations?

My hope is that we will be just as amazing as those who came before us. Our ancestors who outlived exile and perpetuated Jewish life for 2000 years in exile, ancestors who witnessed the rise and fall of empires, ancestors who maintained their Jewish way of life—in hiding if needed, ancestors who survived the worst that humanity has to offer during the Holocaust, ancestors who came out from the ashes of the Holocaust to make the dream of the modern nation state of Israel, a reality.

And now it is our turn, Generation Zion, to choose life!

In the future, this period of history will be learned about, talked about, and will be celebrated. Who knows? It may become a holiday (think Hannukah or Purim) where we read a megillah, pray and sing, make kiddish, eat a meal, maybe candy, and celebrate that the People of Israel live, all because you, we, did something about it.

And remember: Am Yisrael Chai is not a slogan, it is a way of life.

Rabbi Leor Sinai is Principal of Sinai Strategies, a consulting agency focused on advancing Global Jewish – Israel relations, Education, Leadership Development, and Organizational Advancement. Sinai also serves as a motivational speaker, sits on the Jewish Agency for Israel’s Board of Governors as Chair of the Youth Aliyah & Absorption Committee, and serves on the board of Atchalta—a non-partisan think tank advancing social cohesion and national resilience in Israel. Originally from New York, Sinai made Aliyah with his family in 2011.

Illinois Theatre Association to honor 2024 Award of Excellence recipients


CHICAGO - The Illinois Theatre Association will recognize eight theatre professionals and educators as the recipients of the 2024 Award of Excellence. The awards will be presented at a brunch during the association's annual meeting on August 3, 2024, at the Copley Theatre in Aurora.

The keynote speaker is actor Gene Weygandt. He has appeared in a host of films, television shows, and on Broadway. His acting credits on screen include The Birdcage, Babe, and Mea Culpa. He has appeared in televised episodes of Home Improvement, Cybil, Murphy Brown, Chicago Fire, Empire, and Chicago Med.

The Chicago-based actor also had roles in Broadway productions, including BIG: The Musical, Wicked, and Come From Away.

This year's 2024 Awards of Excellence include:

Creative Drama/Theatre for Young Audiences:
The Children's Theatre of Elgin and Fox Valley Theatre Company Accepting the Award is Veronica Comings, President

Secondary School Theatre:
J.R. Willard-Rose (Homewood- Flossmoor HS)

College/University Theatre:
Kevin Long (Harper College, Chicago Shakespeare Theater)

Community Theatre:
Joseph Ennenbach (Stage 212, Morris Theater Guild, Streator Engle Lane, and Princeton's Festival 56)

Professional Theatre:
James Calitri (Artistic Director, Festival 56)

2024 Awards of Honor, ITA Non-Member:
John Collins (Executive Director, Goodman Theatre)

2024 Awards of Honor, ITA Member:
Richard Arnold, Jr. (Production Coordinator, College of DuPage)

Anne Thurman Mentorship Award:
Patricia Haynes, 1950-2024
Mother McAuley HS, founder of 99th Street Summer Theatre
Accepting the Award is Erin Fitzpatrick

For more information and registration to this year's event go to https://illinoistheatre.org/event-4897079.



ASSE seeking host families for international high school students


Hosting a high school international student is a popular way to learn about other cultures and create lasting bonds with people from other parts of the world.

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WAYZATA, MN - ASSE International Student Exchange Programs (ASSE) is looking for local families to host high school exchange students aged 15 to 18 from Australia, Denmark, Spain, Italy, Japan, and other countries.

If you are a young family, retired, a single parent, or an empty-nester, hosting an international exchange student is a chance to expand your cultural horizons without leaving the comfort of your home. Hosting international students offers a unique cultural exchange where as the host you can learn more about a particular culture, their traditions, and everyday way of life. This exposure promotes a better understanding and deeper appreciation for ways of life that differ from our own. Thanks to daily interactions and conversations, both the student and host gain valuable insights into different perspectives, customs, and languages.

Another reason to host international students is that it facilitates personal growth and development.

For the host family, it offers an opportunity to expand their worldview, enhance communication skills, and develop empathy and intercultural competence. For the students, living abroad provides an opportunity to step out of their comfort zone, adapt to new environments, and build resilience and independence. They can also improve their language skills and develop a deeper understanding of issues that affect both cultures.

Some families become serial hosts, enjoying lasting friendships and the connections formed that extend beyond the hosting period.


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Generally, the host and student forge meaningful relationships built on shared experiences and mutual respect. These connections can transcend geographical boundaries and last a lifetime, providing opportunities for future collaborations, visits, and cultural exchanges.

"I was so excited to see my host family and get to know them. I’m sure they were too. I call my host parents 'mom' and 'dad,' and you know, it does make us feel as a family," said Dilrabo Sultanmuratova, a student from Kazakhstan. "I’m very lucky to have such an awesome host family. They consider me like their real daughter; we have a very good relationship with each other. We have so many good memories together."

ASSE students arrive with their own spending money and comprehensive insurance coverage. Each student is carefully selected based on their academic achievements and personality for placement.

Hosting an international student can be a life-changing experience. Brian Miller, a veteran whose son fought in Iraq and Afghanistan, admitted that 9/11, along with his son's experiences while deployed, largely contributed to his view of Middle Eastern culture.

"I wouldn't say hate or racist, I would say dislike of the Muslim community," Miller said.

"Once we got Ali in the home, I got to learn a lot and he enlightened me to quite a few things," Miller said. Over time and conversations, Ali and the Shirkieville, IN family became "virtually inseparable" thanks to the YES Scholarship Program started by Richard Lugar and Ted Kennedy after 9/11.

After hosting Ali in 2013, Miller said his perspective on the Muslim culture changed.

To learn how you can become an ASSE Host Family, contact the ASSE Midwestern Regional Office at 1-800-736-1760 or visit www.host.asse.com.


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Craft happy hour this Wednesday


URBANA - Looking to meet new people or maybe show off your artistic side? Unwind and chill at this post-workday event at the Urbana Arts and Culture free craft happy hour at the Urbana Free Library on Wednesday, April 3, from 6 to 7 p.m.

Each month, UAC offers a monthly drop-in crafts program for adults to enjoy after a long day at the office. This week, participants will create painted flower pots to take home. All the craft supplies needed will be provided and light refreshments will be available. Pre-registration is not required.

The adult craft happy hours are presented each month by Urbana Arts and Culture with a different craft and guest artist. For more information contact the Programming and Outreach Manager via email at programming@urbanafree.org or via phone at 217-367-4057.



5 reasons to move your family to Illinois


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SNS - If you are planning to relocate to Illinois with your family, you will not be making a mistake. If you're curious about what makes the Prairie State perfect for settling down, keep reading and learn all about the benefits of moving there. You will discover five reasons why you should plan to move your family to Illinois.

Prepare for the move
Before you relocate, take your time to familiarize yourself with this state. Learn what it offers to families, find a new home, and discover the best places to raise your children. Along with that, you should also do your best to prepare your kids for the upcoming move. So, if they are old enough to understand what's happening, try including them in the relocating project. And even though sticking to their routine is a key to successful parenting, challenge them and give them chores. That will help them overcome this move more easily and quickly.

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1. Education opportunities
Educational opportunities are among the best benefits of living in Illinois with your family. Home to prestigious universities such as the University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign, Northwestern University, and the University of Chicago, the state offers world-class higher education options.

Additionally, Illinois features strong public school systems in many areas, ensuring quality education for children from kindergarten through high school. Whether pursuing advanced degrees or establishing a solid foundation for their children's academic journey, families in Illinois have access to a diverse range of educational resources and institutions to support their goals. In other words, when you relocate here, you can relax knowing your kids will get a high-quality education.

2. Cultural activities
Illinois is a treasure trove of cultural activities, offering something for everyone in the family to enjoy. Chicago, the state's cultural hub, is home to world-renowned museums such as the Art Institute of Chicago, the Field Museum, and the Museum of Science and Industry. These places are known for providing enriching experiences for art, history, and science enthusiasts alike.

Runners start out at the annual St. Joseph 5K. There are various community festivals and athletic events, recreational and pro, all summer long in Illinois.
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What’s more, the city's vibrant theater scene, including Broadway productions and local performances, ensures a steady stream of entertainment year-round. Beyond Chicago, Illinois is home to charming small towns with galleries, theaters, and music venues showcasing local talent and fostering community engagement. From attending live performances to exploring art galleries and cultural festivals, Illinois offers diverse cultural activities that inspire and entertain residents of all ages.

3. Wide range of housing options
Illinois offers a range of affordable residential opportunities, making it an attractive choice for families seeking a comfortable place to call home. While certain areas may have higher housing costs, the state provides diverse options for various budgets and preferences. Thanks to that, your new living space can be an apartment in an urban neighborhood, a house in a suburban area, or whatever option you desire. Illinois offers a mix of housing styles and neighborhoods to accommodate different lifestyles, and you won't have any trouble finding the perfect place for your family to settle down.

Hire pros for help
However, if you prefer to live in an urban location like Chicago, it is important to have a good real estate agent by your side. With this expert as your partner, you can complete this house-hunting process in no time. In addition to that, when relocating to Chicago, it is recommended to ask movers to help you safely transfer your belongings to a new home. This way, even if you are planning on moving here from Florida, you can rest assured your possessions will be safe. With the help of these specialists, you can have a smooth move whether you want to relocate to Chicago or its nearby areas in East Central Illinois, like Tolono, St. Joseph, or Urbana.

4. Employment opportunities

Minimum wage is currently at $14 per hour in Illinois. There is no shortage of jobs or opportunities for self-employment paying more in both urban and rural areas around the state.
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The Prairie State offers diverse employment opportunities across various industries, which is another great reason to move your family to Illinois. This state is home to major finance, technology, healthcare, manufacturing, and professional services corporations. Illinois is also a good destination for anyone who plans to start their own business.

It is also important to know that the state has strong employment sectors outside of big cities like Chicago. Thanks to that, you probably won't have any problems getting a job in suburban or rural areas. You can find work opportunities there in agriculture, education, logistics, and more. So, whether you're looking to advance your career or explore new professional avenues, know that Illinois provides a dynamic and diverse job market to meet your aspirations.

5. Quality of life
Illinois offers a high quality of life characterized by a unique blend of urban excitement and natural beauty. With vibrant cities like Chicago providing many cultural attractions, dining experiences, and entertainment options, residents can enjoy a dynamic urban lifestyle.

Alyssa Teijeiro-Ficht (right) leads a Flamenco dance workshop at Lincoln Square Mall on Saturday during the Boneyard Arts Festival in Urbana. There is no shortage of culture even in smaller Illinois cities like Champaign-Urbana, Bloomington-Normal, and Springfield for residents to enjoy.

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When you settle into your new home beyond the city limits, you'll notice that the state has picturesque landscapes, including scenic parks, lakeshores, and forest preserves, offering abundant outdoor recreation and relaxation opportunities. Apart from that, Illinois' central location offers easy access to neighboring states and major metropolitan areas.

When planning to move your family to Illinois, know that this state presents a compelling destination for parents and kids! It offers a perfect blend of opportunity, culture, and quality of life. Therefore, it is no wonder that Illinois welcomes families with open arms, promising a fulfilling and enriching experience for those who choose to make it their home.




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