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Guest Commentary | A person of many companions may soon come to ruin

by Glenn Mollette, Guest Commentator

You may have heard this before. I went out to find a friend a none were to be found. I went out to be a friend and found them all around.

Where do you find friends?

Your best friends may be your family. You may be close to siblings, cousins, and others related to you. Growing up, I was blessed to be around a lot of aunts, uncles, cousins, grandparents, siblings, and parents. I didn’t have to think much about searching for friends because so many relatives were always around. This is not always the case. Many people have small families or maybe even no family. Some families go in different directions, live in different places, or move on with different interests and lives.

The Internet and social media have become the world’s biggest connection place.

We often find friends in school. Some of the people we shared elementary and high school with become lifelong connections. Even if we don’t see each other much, we still have those great past times that help us reconnect quickly.

We connect with people at our places of employment. Some of the people you spend hours with every day become lifelong friends.

Houses of faith are often good places to make new friends. People get to know each other in Bible study classes and other small group religious settings. The people you share your faith with will often become like brothers and sisters.

The local gym is often a place where people socialize. If you become a routine attender of an exercise class you will eventually develop some friends.

The Internet and social media have become the world’s biggest connection place. To many people this is their only connection. All their “friends” are on Facebook or Instagram. Many people have thousands of social media friends. Too often the loneliest people on the planet are those who are only connected by a keypad.

There are many more places where you can connect. Many communities have baking, quilting, hunting, sports clubs, and more. Civic groups from Kiwanis, Rotary, and Ruritan groups will often meet weekly and do community projects.

You might make some friends volunteering at the hospital or nursing home. There will be people in most of these places who will be glad to make a new friend. Talk to your local nursing home about your interest and you may be surprised how quickly your talents are utilized. You will also find some people who will be glad to make a new friend. Keep in mind this is not always easy as you will be trying to make friends with many who feel alone and forgotten.

You can always become active in the local political circles. This all depends on your level of desperation and if you don’t mind being shunned by whichever party you don’t declare affiliation.

Don’t try to have too many friends. The Bible says a person of many companions may soon come to ruin. However, you need a few friends and hopefully you will have some good ones.

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He is the author of 13 books including Uncommom Sense, the Spiritual Chocolate series, Grandpa's Store, Minister's Guidebook insights from a fellow minister. His column is published weekly in over 600 publications in all 50 states. The views expressed are those of the author and are not necessarily representative of any other group or organization. We welcome comments and views from our readers. Submit your letters to the editor or commentary on a current event 24/7 to editor@oursentinel.com.

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Declutter, Discover, Delight: Hosting a stellar yard sale this fall

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Sentinel News Service - In a world where material possessions seem to accumulate faster than we can keep up, the idea of decluttering has become more appealing than ever. But what if there was a way to not only declutter your living space but also discover hidden treasures and delight in the process? Enter the backyard yard sale – a fantastic opportunity to turn your excess belongings into cash while creating a sense of community in your own neighborhood. This guide will walk you through the steps of hosting a stellar yard sale in your backyard, from planning and organizing to maximizing your profits and enjoying the experience.

The Power of Decluttering
Before you can embark on the journey of hosting a successful yard sale, it's important to recognize the transformative power of decluttering. Clutter not only occupies physical space but can also weigh down your mind. By letting go of items you no longer need or use, you're not just clearing your environment but making space for positive energy and new beginnings. Embracing the process of decluttering can lead to a sense of liberation, allowing you to focus on what truly matters and inviting a renewed sense of creativity into your life.

Unearthing Hidden Treasures
One person's trash is another person's treasure, and hosting a yard sale is the perfect opportunity to unearth hidden gems. As you go through your belongings, you might come across items you had forgotten about or that hold sentimental value. This discovery process adds an element of excitement to the yard sale experience, both for you as you reminisce about the stories behind the items and for your potential buyers who might stumble upon unique pieces that spark their sense of nostalgia and fascination.

Planning Your Stellar Yard Sale
A successful yard sale requires careful planning and organization. Start by setting a date and time for your event, considering factors like weather and local community events to ensure maximum foot traffic. Weekends are often ideal, as more people are likely to be available to attend. Check local regulations and obtain any necessary permits to avoid any last-minute hassles. Create a thoughtfully organized layout for your yard, designating clear areas for different categories of items to create an effortless browsing experience for your shoppers. Remember, pricing is key – be realistic and open to negotiation, striking a balance between attracting buyers and ensuring a fair return for your belongings. Keep in mind that the ultimate goal is not only to declutter your space but also to find new loving homes for your items while also making a satisfying profit.

Organizing for Success
As the date of the yard sale in your backyard approaches, it's time to get organized. Gather tables, racks, and other display items to showcase your items attractively. Create inviting arrangements that draw shoppers in and encourage them to explore. Group similar items together – clothing, electronics, kitchenware, etc., allowing visitors to browse through categories of interest effortlessly. Consider using signs or labels for the organization and adding a charming touch to your setup, guiding buyers on their treasure hunt. Ensure that your yard is clean and presentable, creating a warm and welcoming atmosphere that entices visitors to linger and discover hidden gems.

Marketing Matters
You'll need to spread the word about your yard sale to attract a steady stream of enthusiastic buyers eager to uncover treasures. Leverage the power of social media by creating engaging posts and events on popular platforms like Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter. Showcase high-quality photos of select items you'll be offering to pique curiosity and anticipation. In addition to digital strategies, don't underestimate the charm of traditional methods – hang eye-catching flyers around your neighborhood and personally share the event details with your circle of friends and family. This dynamic approach ensures that your yard sale becomes the talk of the town, drawing in a diverse crowd of bargain hunters and curious shoppers.

The Art of Negotiation
Yard sales are known for their bargain-hunting atmosphere, and the art of negotiation plays a significant role. Be prepared for haggling and consider setting slightly higher prices than you're willing to accept. This strategic pricing approach not only provides flexibility for bargaining but also allows you to meet your buyers halfway, ensuring both parties walk away feeling satisfied. Keep a friendly and open attitude throughout these interactions, making the shopping experience transactional and a pleasant and memorable exchange for your visitors.

Embracing the Delight
As shoppers explore your yard sale and make purchases, take a moment to embrace the delight of the experience. Engage with your visitors, share stories about the items you're selling if applicable, and enjoy the sense of community that such an event can bring. Seeing your items find new homes and knowing that you're contributing to sustainable shopping practices can be truly fulfilling.

Giving Back and Clearing Out
At the end of your yard sale, you might find that you have some items left. Consider donating them to local charities or shelters, ensuring that they find meaningful homes. This final step in the process can bring a sense of closure and fulfillment, knowing that your belongings are making a positive impact.

Counting Your Delights – Maximizing Profits
After the sale concludes, take some time to tally up your earnings. Reflect on what went well and what you could improve for next time. Hosting a yard sale in your backyard isn't just about decluttering; it's also an opportunity to earn extra cash and learn valuable lessons about organizing, marketing, and connecting with others. It is also one of the really good money saving moving tips—organizing a yard sale in order to declutter before a relocation. This will help you reduce the number of things you will need to haul with you and also ensure you don't go over your budget, as you will also make some extra moving cash. Therefore, it is an overall win-win situation, no matter the goal.

A Journey of Decluttering, Discovery, and Delight with a Yard Sale in Your Backyard
Hosting a yard sale in your backyard is a multifaceted journey that goes beyond the simple act of selling items. It's about decluttering your space, discovering hidden treasures, and delighting in the process. From the initial planning stages to the final moments of the sale, every step offers a chance to connect with your community, embrace the art of negotiation, and experience the joy of giving your belongings a new lease on life. So, roll up your sleeves, get ready to declutter, and embark on a delightful adventure right in your own backyard.